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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #15 on Jul 23, 2010, 11:38am » | |
Jul 23, 2010, 9:58am, thunderroad wrote:| Mods can we take this off, feels like I've stumbled into a Nickleback or UFC forum. |
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This thread is the result of a couple board members arguing in the music section, with one member questioning the other's sexuality as a way to insult that member. I took this thread more as a "if you guys want to Dr. Garbanzoht and make gay jokes, put them here instead of in the music forum."
Deleting offensive posts doesn't really solve the problem. If anything, this discussion does more to fix it. There have been, and always will be offensive and tasteless posts, but I'd rather err on the side of not deleting posts, rather than setting a precedent of what should and shouldn't be deleted.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #16 on Jul 23, 2010, 11:51am » | |
Who called who gay in the music forum. I don't think that actually happened.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #17 on Jul 23, 2010, 2:02pm » | |
Jul 23, 2010, 9:58am, thunderroad wrote:Sorry, but this is disgusting - I know you are trying for "funny/ironic/sarcastic", but throwing around gay stuff as insults, or oh sorry I guess as "jokes", is both offensive and ignorant. I would probably lay money down that you aren't even homophobic and like many young boys claim "I don't mean anything against gay people, it's just a word to use, it just means lame and stupid". No I'm sorry, Gay is a word that describes human beings - so if you want to use it as an insult, please own it for what it is and don't hide behind "It's just a word" or "Me and my friends use it all the time, we don't hate gay people" Well I am sure they appreciate all your "love" when you choose to call the next person that pisses you off a "f*g**t".
Please question how using the words "f*g" and "gay/that's gay/so gay" to describe something lame/stupid isn't offensive or wouldn't be taken as offensive by some one who is gay. Face it your using the words in a hateful and derogatory manner - you're never putting them in terms of complements (eg - "Inception is so gay, best movie experience ever!")
But to give you the benefit of the doubt, perhaps you've just been brainwashed by Will Ferrall and Borat to see these as no more than "funny" words, well to you newjersey I say, now that you know better - you do better.
Mods can we take this off, feels like I've stumbled into a Nickleback or UFC forum. |
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You... mad?
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #18 on Jul 23, 2010, 2:46pm » | |
Disapointed
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #19 on Jul 23, 2010, 3:21pm » | |
thunderroad thought she was going to make a difference in the world today. You have to learn these lessons the hard way I guess.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #20 on Jul 23, 2010, 3:25pm » | |
Jul 23, 2010, 2:46pm, thunderroad wrote:
I guess I don't really understand what you're trying to accomplish with your message.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #21 on Jul 23, 2010, 7:16pm » | |
Jul 23, 2010, 3:21pm, Horned Gramma wrote:| thunderroad thought she was going to make a difference in the world today. You have to learn these lessons the hard way I guess. |
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I did make a difference in the world today, just not on the internets. Those stupid internets.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #22 on Jul 23, 2010, 11:27pm » | |
hahaha wtf is going on in here?
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #23 on Jul 24, 2010, 12:18am » | |
Jul 23, 2010, 11:27pm, Pea wrote:| hahaha wtf is going on in here? |
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I made a thread in which I called everyone gay, and someone I didn't call gay got angry at me.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #24 on Jul 24, 2010, 1:10am » | |
gheeeey
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Mar 3, 2013, 6:13pm, Dr. Garbanzo wrote:| Its a Sasquatch Dr. Garbanzohting a bear Dr. Garbanzohting a Sasquatch. |
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #25 on Jul 27, 2010, 2:32pm » | |
Jul 23, 2010, 9:58am, thunderroad wrote:Sorry, but this is disgusting - I know you are trying for "funny/ironic/sarcastic", but throwing around gay stuff as insults, or oh sorry I guess as "jokes", is both offensive and ignorant. I would probably lay money down that you aren't even homophobic and like many young boys claim "I don't mean anything against gay people, it's just a word to use, it just means lame and stupid". No I'm sorry, Gay is a word that describes human beings - so if you want to use it as an insult, please own it for what it is and don't hide behind "It's just a word" or "Me and my friends use it all the time, we don't hate gay people" Well I am sure they appreciate all your "love" when you choose to call the next person that pisses you off a "f*g**t".
Please question how using the words "f*g" and "gay/that's gay/so gay" to describe something lame/stupid isn't offensive or wouldn't be taken as offensive by some one who is gay. Face it your using the words in a hateful and derogatory manner - you're never putting them in terms of complements (eg - "Inception is so gay, best movie experience ever!")
But to give you the benefit of the doubt, perhaps you've just been brainwashed by Will Ferrall and Borat to see these as no more than "funny" words, well to you newjersey I say, now that you know better - you do better.
Mods can we take this off, feels like I've stumbled into a Nickleback or UFC forum. |
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As a gay woman I can not agree more with this. 2 months ago my friend was attacked walking home (a girl) and brutally beat up by 3 guys, who were shouting "kill the ***" and "fuck you queer". She was beat down then kicked in the head over 10 times. Itellectualize and rationalize the "it's only a word" argument all you want, as it stands now it is a hateful word and until you are a member of a community who are verbally, politically and physically attacked you may never know the pain one gets from seeing these words thrown around so flippantly. So as Thunderroad stated "If you know better, you do better", or willingly choose to be a part of the hate, and to the mods, y'all can willingly choose too!!!!! We don't need this anymore - our fucking police (edmonton, alberta) took over a week to even recognize this as a hate crime and even had the fucking nerve to publicly say "***" and "queer" aren't always indicative of hate and are just words people say when they are fired up! Shit even made international news for it's blatant ignorance.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #26 on Jul 27, 2010, 6:21pm » | |
Ok, at this point I support deleting this thread as well. This is dumb as hell.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #27 on Jul 27, 2010, 11:32pm » | |
Jul 27, 2010, 6:21pm, Horned Gramma wrote:| Ok, at this point I support deleting this thread as well. This is dumb as hell. |
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YOU DUMB AS HELL
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #28 on Jul 28, 2010, 2:07am » | |
Your name is missing a space too, you gay.
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|  | Re: It Is Here Where We Shall Sling Our Barbs « Reply #29 on Jul 28, 2010, 9:35am » | |
Jul 27, 2010, 11:32pm, newjersey wrote:
Look asshole, I have family in hell.
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